Thread 01 · Exile and Migration · September 29, 2026
Making the other a stranger
Othering turns a difference into a border. From everyday glances to dehumanization, it follows a slope we can learn to climb back up.
1 · The scene
This morning, while shaving, I held my reflection's gaze longer than usual. How many times have I let other people's eyes define my worth?
A friend once told me that racism does not only wound from the outside: sometimes it ends up settling inside. It is the most discreet poison, the one that makes you doubt yourself even when no one is speaking.
I wrote in my notebook: reclaiming your image means learning to see yourself through your own eyes.
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2 · The documented case
Othering, when difference becomes a border
Othering is the process by which a person or a group is constructed as "other": different, foreign, often inferior, in relation to a norm that the majority does not even name. Skin colour, accent, religion or language become labels that reduce someone to a single identity.
The thinker Edward Said gave this mechanism one of its most famous analyses. In Orientalism, published in 1978, he shows how Western societies manufactured images of the "Orient" in opposition to themselves, an other presented not only as different but as inferior. Britannica counts it among the most influential scholarly books of the 20th century.
Othering often starts small, with a look or a remark. At its extreme, it leads to dehumanization. In Rwanda, in the months before the 1994 genocide against the Tutsi, the newspaper Kangura referred to them as inyenzi, "cockroaches." On December 3, 2003, the International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda convicted three media leaders of genocide, including the founder of Radio Télévision Libre des Mille Collines.
Ubuntu does not ask us to erase differences. It refuses to let them become walls. Recognizing others in all their complexity is also a way of protecting ourselves: a society that learns to dehumanize spares no one.
3 · The voice
“Whatever happens to the individual happens to the whole group”
“everything that is too different from him threatens his peace of mind”
4 · The question
What label have you ever stuck on someone, or received yourself, and what would it take to see a whole person behind it?
Sources
- Britannica, "Orientalism," work by Edward Said. www.britannica.com
- United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, "Rwanda Media Trial Opens," October 23, 2000. encyclopedia.ushmm.org
- International Residual Mechanism for Criminal Tribunals, "Three Media Leaders Convicted for Genocide," December 3, 2003. unictr.irmct.org
- Academic article citing J. S. Mbiti, African Religions and Philosophy (1989 ed., p. 106), Catholic University of Eichstätt-Ingolstadt. edoc.ku.de
- Critiques libres, "Le racisme expliqué à ma fille," excerpts; BnF record of the work (1998) (in French). www.critiqueslibres.com
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